Kenneth G. Wilson (1923–). The Columbia Guide to Standard American English. 1993.
reconcile (v.)
When it combines with a preposition, reconcile as a transitive verb uses either with or to, as in We finally reconciled their accounts with [to] our records, and only with when the verb is intransitive, as in They finally reconciled with their parents. In the passive, the verb takes either with or to: They were reconciled with [to] their new circumstances. All these are Standard.
